The capability of our brain as human being is one great advantage bestowed on us by God (nature). Many researches have been made as to how much can the average human brain take. What is the optimal level of assimilation and learning we can accommodate. Starting from when we are toddlers, up until now, we have actually been learning one thing or the other; knowingly or unknowingly.
Our senses have been programmed in such a way that mere seeing of somethings alone gets registered in a part of our brain, which we ourselves might not be wary of. This is actually the motivation for today's piece. Never ever stop learning. No matter how old or incapable we might seem to be, we still stand a very high chance of learning something new. Everyday! Every time!
We have seen stories, documentaries of people that decided to go back to school at a very old age. Though this might seem irrational to the ordinary person, but permit me to say it is a decision beyond an ordinary mind. It is a decision of a mind whose soundness transcends the physical attribute, age, or disposition.
Wherever you might find yourself, make a decision to task yourself to always be ready to learn something new. Make a decision to pick up a new skill. Its not all about the fact that you are done with academic education. The day we stop learning (through reading or whichever means) is the day we start dying). You are not too old, not too young, not too educated and most importantly not too dumb to pick up a new skill (most preferably out of your circle or discipline) and equip yourself for yourself and for your community.
mind your minute.
Friday 28 October 2016
Wednesday 26 October 2016
NOW IS THE TIME TO BE HAPPY
Found myself in the midst of a discussion today. Someone was trying to give a description for everybody. I was curious to know how i would be described. Alas! When it got to my turn; "you are always frowning your face. You hardly smile." To say i was shocked will be an understatement. We all laughed it off.
But i tried to reason along with myself. Could it be true? Do i always frown my face? Why don't i carry a smiling and friendly face? What could be wrong with me? All this questions were popping up in my mind. And i felt a need to share my thoughts and opinion.
Most times, we seem to think things are not working formus the way it should. As a matter of fact, we tend to believe we are the only person in that kind of challenge. We seem to always ask ourselves; why always me? And its rather unfortunate that all of these things have robbed us of the happiness we are suppose to enjoy ourselves and to also share to others. We tend to believe that there is a moment in life when all we desire will be available, and then we can start to express hapiness. Nothing could be farther from the truth.
The same situation you find yourself that does not make you happy is the heart desire of some folks. My advice to you is to enjoy life as it comes to you. Like they say, you only live once. When life gives you a lemon, make a melon from it, or turn it to a lemonade. Always note that the smile on your face could be an encouragement to someone out there. Happiness is enjoyed most when it is shared.
Make a decision to be joyful always irrespective of your disposition. Make a decision never to allow challenges and issues of life to rob you of the satisfaction you derived from being happy and making others happy too.
But i tried to reason along with myself. Could it be true? Do i always frown my face? Why don't i carry a smiling and friendly face? What could be wrong with me? All this questions were popping up in my mind. And i felt a need to share my thoughts and opinion.
Most times, we seem to think things are not working formus the way it should. As a matter of fact, we tend to believe we are the only person in that kind of challenge. We seem to always ask ourselves; why always me? And its rather unfortunate that all of these things have robbed us of the happiness we are suppose to enjoy ourselves and to also share to others. We tend to believe that there is a moment in life when all we desire will be available, and then we can start to express hapiness. Nothing could be farther from the truth.
The same situation you find yourself that does not make you happy is the heart desire of some folks. My advice to you is to enjoy life as it comes to you. Like they say, you only live once. When life gives you a lemon, make a melon from it, or turn it to a lemonade. Always note that the smile on your face could be an encouragement to someone out there. Happiness is enjoyed most when it is shared.
Make a decision to be joyful always irrespective of your disposition. Make a decision never to allow challenges and issues of life to rob you of the satisfaction you derived from being happy and making others happy too.
Thursday 13 October 2016
BE RESPONSIBLE
Leadership comes first with responsibilities before opportunities. You must be responsible for or to something. The level of leadership determines the height of responsibilities you get. Opportunities definitely comes leadership, but first there must be responsibilities.
Wherever you find yourself, be ready to take on responsibilities. It's a setup to your opportunities. Never shy away from responsibilities. Good leaders are responsible people.
Mimd your minute.
Wednesday 12 October 2016
OPPORTUNITY AND PREPARATION
Opportunity sometimes comes without warning. Opportunity sometimes comes without signs. There are times you are waiting, and it doesn't really show up. Times when all you needed is like a miracle. Yet nothing shows up.
But one thing i am sure of is the fact that when there is adequate preparations, whenever opportunities show up, you are tagged the lucky guy. Preparation is the key here. If you want to make judicious use of opportunity whenever it shows, be ready. Be prepared.
Mind your minute.
But one thing i am sure of is the fact that when there is adequate preparations, whenever opportunities show up, you are tagged the lucky guy. Preparation is the key here. If you want to make judicious use of opportunity whenever it shows, be ready. Be prepared.
Mind your minute.
Sunday 9 October 2016
TODAY'S PAIN.................TOMORROW'S GAIN
No pain, no gain is a popular word we've all used at a point or the other. But in the real sense of it, what's the degree of pain we can actually endure whilst waiting for the gain? Whenever issues comes up, what and how do we respond to them? .
One thing we can all be assured of is the fact that on oir way to actualisation of our dreams, the road will definitely be rough. There will be times we will be faced with daunting experiences that will likely make us to try and rethink what we are doing.
But be rest assured, you are on the right way. Remain commited to your dreams. Remain totally dedicated to your calling. Your rough road today will never last. Tough times don't last, tough people do. The beginning seems scary, the ending will definitely be great. You have come too long to give up. Every great testimony comes with a test. Keep fighting.
I love you.
One thing we can all be assured of is the fact that on oir way to actualisation of our dreams, the road will definitely be rough. There will be times we will be faced with daunting experiences that will likely make us to try and rethink what we are doing.
But be rest assured, you are on the right way. Remain commited to your dreams. Remain totally dedicated to your calling. Your rough road today will never last. Tough times don't last, tough people do. The beginning seems scary, the ending will definitely be great. You have come too long to give up. Every great testimony comes with a test. Keep fighting.
I love you.
HALF EMPTY OR HALF FILLED.
We are all conversant with the story of the half filled/half empty cup. I just wish to reiterate one or two things about this wonderful story. A cup with water up to its middle is place in your front. If you are to describe it, what will be your description? Half empty or half full.
Your perspective to the things that happens around you determines the kind of person you are. When challenges face you, what is your resolution? What comes first to your mind. How do you see gourself in the thick of the storm? We will all be faced with challenges in our life, but what will your reactions be to this.
Just as the cup, never look at what you have lost, but at what you have left. No matter how little that which is left, there is still a power of multiplication that can work in it. All you need is to have a strong will believing that you can achieve what you set out to achieve. Its not over. Keep on fighting. Keep on believing.
I love you.
Your perspective to the things that happens around you determines the kind of person you are. When challenges face you, what is your resolution? What comes first to your mind. How do you see gourself in the thick of the storm? We will all be faced with challenges in our life, but what will your reactions be to this.
Just as the cup, never look at what you have lost, but at what you have left. No matter how little that which is left, there is still a power of multiplication that can work in it. All you need is to have a strong will believing that you can achieve what you set out to achieve. Its not over. Keep on fighting. Keep on believing.
I love you.
THE GYMNASTIC PYRAMID PART 3
To bring it all to a wrap, the last part to discuss i call THE FRONTIERS. The frontiers as the name implies are always on the fore front. He is the part of the structure that people get to see. Most of the times, he takes the glory. He takes the credit. He is the one we all get to see.
The frontier can be likened to the fruit of the effort of the whole group. He has come a long way to find himself wherever he is. One thing i will love to make known to the frontier is never to allow the glory get to his head. He must never at anytime forget to appreciate the efforts of all others at any given opportunity. Its horrible to imagine the result of a collapse in the structure. Guess who will be most affected. Its the frontier. And as such, he must be very careful.
In conclusion, wherever you find yourself in any structure, please be aware that you not playing your part is dangerous to the group. Also, the unity of each subgroup must reflect on the unity of the structure as a whole.
Always endeavour to play your part. You are too important to be left out. Whatsoever is worth doingbat all, is worth doing well. Make a difference anhwhere you find yourself. You are the best. You are a champion.
I oove you!
The frontier can be likened to the fruit of the effort of the whole group. He has come a long way to find himself wherever he is. One thing i will love to make known to the frontier is never to allow the glory get to his head. He must never at anytime forget to appreciate the efforts of all others at any given opportunity. Its horrible to imagine the result of a collapse in the structure. Guess who will be most affected. Its the frontier. And as such, he must be very careful.
In conclusion, wherever you find yourself in any structure, please be aware that you not playing your part is dangerous to the group. Also, the unity of each subgroup must reflect on the unity of the structure as a whole.
Always endeavour to play your part. You are too important to be left out. Whatsoever is worth doingbat all, is worth doing well. Make a difference anhwhere you find yourself. You are the best. You are a champion.
I oove you!
Thursday 6 October 2016
THE GYMNASTIC PYRAMID 2
Still on the matter! After the subgroup i called THE FOUNDATION....... (check the last post for details), the next subgroup of people that made the gymnastic pyramid a success are the ones i will call THE FRAMEWORKERS. Yeah! They definitely should be called that. The frameworkers. Who are they? What do they have to offer? How important are they in the structure of any organisation? All of these we will try to check out.
Ever comsider a magnificient building. The magnificience, the beauty, the design and what have you. Ofcourse, there is a need for what can be termed the supports. This is where these group of people belong. They bank on the opportunity that the foundation is able to provide for them to be able to provide a good, stromg and supportive framework for the pyramid as a whole. They are the link that must never be missing in any well structured organogram. You really can't have a working system without their input.
Just as the bones in the human body, so are these to any organisation. How possible is it to have a functioning system without a solid supportive framework. What a very great privilege for anyone to belong here. They are just as important as any other group that forms this great pyramid.
One very important thing i can't seem to get my mind off is the fact that for you to get to the top of the pyramid, you need to lean on this group of people whether you like them or not. You can totally depend on the framework they provide to get to where you need to get to on thempyramid. Just like the foumdation group, these set of people comprises of the strong, dogged willed and responsible imdividuals. They have a great understanding of the importance of their task, that they are not ready to give room for any form of mistake. No matter how strong the foundation might be, without this link, there can never be anything to call the gymnastic pyramid. Every other person lean on them for support and framework, and they understand the importance so much that irrespective of their own inconvenience and weariness, perseverance is a key word to them. They are ready to sacrifice everything to be sure the system does not collapse.
In every structured organisation, these are the people that keeps the system goimg. Every progress and success the organisation records is as a rezult of the support they offer. Unlike the set in the foundation, they can be seen. Their work can be seen. As a matter of fact, the tiredness might be well scribed out on their foreheads, but inside of them is the fighter. Always ready to give all to male zure things are running smoothly and perfectly.
As a leader in any sphere, recognising these people will go a long way in helping you. And if you are lucky to be a part of this sphere, its really a privilege. You are also a point man in the success story of wherever you are. Give your all. Never give up. Its really hard to provide the support in times when things seems unfavourable. But the joy of it all should be in the fact that you are too important and valuable to be discarded.
I love you.
Ever comsider a magnificient building. The magnificience, the beauty, the design and what have you. Ofcourse, there is a need for what can be termed the supports. This is where these group of people belong. They bank on the opportunity that the foundation is able to provide for them to be able to provide a good, stromg and supportive framework for the pyramid as a whole. They are the link that must never be missing in any well structured organogram. You really can't have a working system without their input.
Just as the bones in the human body, so are these to any organisation. How possible is it to have a functioning system without a solid supportive framework. What a very great privilege for anyone to belong here. They are just as important as any other group that forms this great pyramid.
One very important thing i can't seem to get my mind off is the fact that for you to get to the top of the pyramid, you need to lean on this group of people whether you like them or not. You can totally depend on the framework they provide to get to where you need to get to on thempyramid. Just like the foumdation group, these set of people comprises of the strong, dogged willed and responsible imdividuals. They have a great understanding of the importance of their task, that they are not ready to give room for any form of mistake. No matter how strong the foundation might be, without this link, there can never be anything to call the gymnastic pyramid. Every other person lean on them for support and framework, and they understand the importance so much that irrespective of their own inconvenience and weariness, perseverance is a key word to them. They are ready to sacrifice everything to be sure the system does not collapse.
In every structured organisation, these are the people that keeps the system goimg. Every progress and success the organisation records is as a rezult of the support they offer. Unlike the set in the foundation, they can be seen. Their work can be seen. As a matter of fact, the tiredness might be well scribed out on their foreheads, but inside of them is the fighter. Always ready to give all to male zure things are running smoothly and perfectly.
As a leader in any sphere, recognising these people will go a long way in helping you. And if you are lucky to be a part of this sphere, its really a privilege. You are also a point man in the success story of wherever you are. Give your all. Never give up. Its really hard to provide the support in times when things seems unfavourable. But the joy of it all should be in the fact that you are too important and valuable to be discarded.
I love you.
THE GYMNASTIC PYRAMID
Came across a video today online, and it has cause me to brood and reflect over it times without number. I prefer to tag it the gymnastic pyramid. Its a video of a whole lot of gymnast trying to form a pyramid. A very tall one. I am sure that days would have turned to weeks in preparations for this exercise. But what has got me thinking all the while is not even the rigour of exercises that has gone to make that show a success, but more importantly, the ability for each person to know his place, his acts and his importance. Based on my observation, i will like to break the whole group into three subgroups.
The first set of people that forms the largest part of the pyramid group are those i will refer to as the FOUNDATION. This is the part that carries almost the whole weight of the whole group put together. These are the set of people that forms the building block for others to be able to get to there position. Anybody going up the pyramid must definitely step on these guys. But no matter how painful it seems to be, i see them as the most important part of the team. You dont get to see them, because not only are they many, but they must also be closely knitted such that you hardly see anyone without a responsibility. The unity in this part must never be compromised.
In a lot of organisations, there are people you rarely see, yet can be reffered to as the brain of the whole team. The kind of work or service they render might look inconsequential, but yet its indispensable. You get to see the people at the top, but you might not even get a chance to see these set of people. They are like the vital organs of the body. You dont get to see them, but they are too important to be neglected. Society has tagged them with lot of names: the silent ones, the bedrock, the expendables and what have you. If anything happens to these people, it affects the whole group as a whole.
Are you a business owner, an executive, a community leader or what have you. To be an effective leader, its paramount for you to identify these people in your realms. Identifying them will definitely set a new course for your successful career as a leader. Appreciate them in any little way you can. People dont get to see or know them, but they really deserve to be appreciated. People only see the guy at the top of the pyramid. But without this foumdation, that guy can be nowhere near that top. You used them as a stepping stone to get to the top, please do well to clean them up. Do well to recognise with them. They are valuable. They are crucial. They are important. Thay are the foundation. And for a successful pyramid, they must be there to give support, provide a pathway, stay strong, remain committed, closely knitted amd ever dependable.
Have you seen yourself as a member of this subgroup? Don't get it twisted, you are relevant. You might not be at the pinnacle, but they definitely cant have a successful pyramid without you. This place is not a place occupied by the feeble. Its not a spot for the irresponsible or the resentful. You are here because you are strong, reliable, respomsible and loving. Continue with this, and you will definitely be rewarded in due time.
I love you.
Wednesday 5 October 2016
HELP IS ON THE WAY
Times are hard! Things are not going as planned! I think am loosing it! Why always me? Have i been forgotten? These are the kind of questions that bothers our minds whenever we find ourselves in precarious situations. We tend to think things are not working for us. Now adding the condition of things in the economy. People are loosing jobs, recession all around, business running down, loosing money, death of a loved one, a family, relative or friend. And all these questions starts popping up. Worst of all, there seems to be no answer. The silence becomes too much to bear.
My message to you this day is to inform you that its not time to give up. Help is definitely on the way. Please, do away with suicidal thoughts. Do away with thoughts of rejection. One thing am definitely sure of is this: you are never alone. Like the slogan of a popular football club, you will never walk alone. Never ever give up. Help is definitely on the way
Yes! Help is on the way. When there is hope, there definitely is a way. It does not matter how many times you have fallen or failed. It does not matter how many times you have been rejected. It does not matter how many times you have faced disappointment. The only thing that matters is the fact that you can still keep on trying. You can not quit. Quitting is never the solution.
Where is the help coming from? How is the help coming? Don't be troubled. Just be rest assured that help will definitely come. While waiting on the help, keep going. Keep being strong. Never give up. Keep encouraging yourself. Keep companies that sees a champion in ou. Keep trying out new things. It will only get better.
Remember, its not over.
I love you.
My message to you this day is to inform you that its not time to give up. Help is definitely on the way. Please, do away with suicidal thoughts. Do away with thoughts of rejection. One thing am definitely sure of is this: you are never alone. Like the slogan of a popular football club, you will never walk alone. Never ever give up. Help is definitely on the way
Yes! Help is on the way. When there is hope, there definitely is a way. It does not matter how many times you have fallen or failed. It does not matter how many times you have been rejected. It does not matter how many times you have faced disappointment. The only thing that matters is the fact that you can still keep on trying. You can not quit. Quitting is never the solution.
Where is the help coming from? How is the help coming? Don't be troubled. Just be rest assured that help will definitely come. While waiting on the help, keep going. Keep being strong. Never give up. Keep encouraging yourself. Keep companies that sees a champion in ou. Keep trying out new things. It will only get better.
Remember, its not over.
I love you.
Tuesday 4 October 2016
Let GO (III).........HABIT
The second part of this talk will be on habit. If there is anything that determines the kind of life a person lives, habit sure takes a big crunch. Habit is a routine of behaviour that a person exhibits over time and finally becomes a sub conscious action. Truth be told, habit goes a long way in determining who you are. It gives a definition of your personality. And its very important to note that it is a reactionary chain. Something leads to habit, and habit in turns leads to somethings. There is this popular saying that the bad habit you dont drop will definitely drop you. Its very clear.
Most times when topic like this is being raised, the things that comes to mind are bigger forms of habits. We tend to characterise them as the big ones. We lookmin the direction of smoking, drinking and so on. But it is essential for us to also take critical look at those small small habits that we tend to overlook. Gossiping, hatred, lies etc. These and many more are habits that affectsnour way of living.
One thing that should be noted is that habit is a function of our thoughts, which in turn is a function of our words. Habit in turn determines our attitude to life. Our attitude in turn determines our character. Our character is our life. Your character is you. (Hopefullym we share minds about character soon). The bottom linenis this: to get rid of the little habits that might definitely be detrimental to our lives. How do we get rid of bad habits? How do we live the kind of life we really desire for our selves?
Firstly, be warry of the company you keep. Show me your friend, and i will tell you the kindmofmperson you are. Evil communication they say corrupts good manners. If there is a particular kind of habit you are determined to drop, take a careful and truthful look at the kind of company you believe makes you susceptible, find a way to domaway with such. It sill be a bit difficult in the beginning, but it surely helps on the long run.
Secondly, watch the environment you find yourself. There are some habits that are dependent on the kind of areas you are. Try as much as possible to keep off such areas.
Thirdly, engage yourself with materials that advices against that habit. Reading goes a long way in helping you have better understanding from people with loads of experience. Readers are leaders. Take a full grasp of your life through deading of good books.
Lastly, seek advise. Seek for counselling. Talk with people that can help you. Share your mind with people that have something to offer you. There is wisdom in the multitude of counsel. A lot of people have gone that same road that you find yourself. They can help you. Do not keep the issues to yourself. A problem solved is half shared.
Finally, the process starts now. Its never too late to begin a process. Keep your mind on the end end mark. You will be a better person.
I love you.
Most times when topic like this is being raised, the things that comes to mind are bigger forms of habits. We tend to characterise them as the big ones. We lookmin the direction of smoking, drinking and so on. But it is essential for us to also take critical look at those small small habits that we tend to overlook. Gossiping, hatred, lies etc. These and many more are habits that affectsnour way of living.
One thing that should be noted is that habit is a function of our thoughts, which in turn is a function of our words. Habit in turn determines our attitude to life. Our attitude in turn determines our character. Our character is our life. Your character is you. (Hopefullym we share minds about character soon). The bottom linenis this: to get rid of the little habits that might definitely be detrimental to our lives. How do we get rid of bad habits? How do we live the kind of life we really desire for our selves?
Firstly, be warry of the company you keep. Show me your friend, and i will tell you the kindmofmperson you are. Evil communication they say corrupts good manners. If there is a particular kind of habit you are determined to drop, take a careful and truthful look at the kind of company you believe makes you susceptible, find a way to domaway with such. It sill be a bit difficult in the beginning, but it surely helps on the long run.
Secondly, watch the environment you find yourself. There are some habits that are dependent on the kind of areas you are. Try as much as possible to keep off such areas.
Thirdly, engage yourself with materials that advices against that habit. Reading goes a long way in helping you have better understanding from people with loads of experience. Readers are leaders. Take a full grasp of your life through deading of good books.
Lastly, seek advise. Seek for counselling. Talk with people that can help you. Share your mind with people that have something to offer you. There is wisdom in the multitude of counsel. A lot of people have gone that same road that you find yourself. They can help you. Do not keep the issues to yourself. A problem solved is half shared.
Finally, the process starts now. Its never too late to begin a process. Keep your mind on the end end mark. You will be a better person.
I love you.
Saturday 1 October 2016
Let GO(II)...........FORGIVENESS
Nothing can be farther from the truth. I describe forgiveness as the ability you possess as an individual to overlook the wrong done to you by someone else. Thats the simple definition i will like to give. And by overlooking, you are not having a biased mind against the fellow. What a very hard thing to do, you might think.
Forgiving the wrong someone else did against you should not be seen as a favour to that person. No! As a matter of fact, you are doimg yourself a great deal of good by letting go of the anger and bitterness you harbour towards your fellow. If there is one thing i am sure of, forgiveness guarantees peace of mind. It definitely looks tough and hard to do, especially when you consider the level of hurt or affliction you passed through as a result of the culprit. However, its only in the interest of you as a person to see it as an opportunity to free yourself from internal self destruct. You would have imagined how a couple of times, you feel like breaking or destroying something whenever you remember the wickedness of that fellow towards you. But i need you to realise this. Every time you have this feelings, it affects you as a person. You lost your joy, peace etc. Unfortunately, the fellow doesn't even know what you are passing through. Does he really care? I doubt! Harbouring this kind of bitterness has been likened to improsoning yourself. Your liberty, freedom, identity are all at stake.
Am sure you really wish you can just yank it off your mind, but it always comes back.
The solution is not in believing that you are not loosing control of your mental ability. Its not in thinking that you are above the situation. The only solution is in letting go of the hatred, the bitterness, the anger, vile or what name you can think of. Forgiveness is the key. It unleashes your happiness, liberty, freedom. It makes you the better person. Forgiveness makesmyou the stronger person. Your ability to forgive is an indication of your level of maturity as an individual. Forgiveness is not what you will see in a child. It takes maturity to forgive someone irrespective of the situation or circumstance.
Take that bold step today. Your colleague at work, your friend down the street, your family member, your ex, anyone you can think of. If possible, take a list and start listing out the names of people that have wronged you in the past. That might just be the beginning of your healing process. You deserve to live better. You deserve to be better. Never allow that anger against someone else rob you of the good life you are to live on earth. Forgiveness should never be a religious affair. Irrespective of the religion you profess, make forgiveness an habit. Overlook the wrong that people do to you. Never allow that person to determine your state and level of happiness. Take the comtrol of your emotions from them. Take over. You own your life, and you owe a duty to yourself never to be taken aback by anger, resentment and the likes towards anybody.
Forgiving that person might just be the force you need to keep you goimg. Never ever underestimate the power in forgiveness. Its an ability you have. You can do it. You deserve a great life.
Make forgiveness an habit. It helps. Thank you.
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